How to Breakup Relationship without Hurting

If you are in a poor relationship with your GF/BF and just want to get rid out of it but still you stick to the relationship just because you don't want to hurt her/him. If you think, you care about her/him that's why you just don't want to tell her/him your feelings of breakup then don't you think, you are just telling her/him lies after lies just to comfort her/him, though when you don't have true feelings alive anymore, that I called Playing with  someone's feelings, moreover I love to tell you are wasting your time and her/him  time too.

It's better to breakup than maintain a poor and unhealthy relationship joh andar se khokla ho chuka he (which is empty from inside). Last night my friend Rinki said, "GF/BFs are more than good friends that's why it's not complicated to talk about breakup."  But there are some Mantras to breakup according to me,if we follow these Mantras. I am sure if your GF/BF is sensible, thoughtful, have understanding then she/he will not get hurt feelings instead he/she will respect your decision and will let you free.

So, bellow mentioned five Mantras you can follow when you breakup and want not to hurt him/her.

Mantra 1.  Explanation with Clarity

            Explain the reason for wanting to breakup with clarity. Vague and convoluted reasons can just leave him/her upset, paranoid and more confused. Before your explanation take a long hard look at your thought process and examine your true reasons. Make sure your decision is truly how you feel. Be honest and open with your GF/BF about your reason to end the relationship for good. 

Mantra 2.  Avoid Drawing False Hope

         Avoid giving your GF/BF false hope about the future if you really want to breakup permanently. But people often make this mistake when breaking up is leaving hope. Firmly close the door on relationship otherwise it will only lead to hurt feelings and heart ache for him/her.

Mantra3. Avoid Breakup on Phone

        Avoid breaking up on the phone. Breaking up through a phone call can come across as heartless, impersonal and just plain rude. Make the effort and take the time to do so face to face in person. This will show him/her that you value your former relationship enough to speak to him/her in person.

Mantra 4.  Don't Waste Time 

      

       As soon as you found that the relationship has no future and going nowhere breakup with your GF/BF, avoid wasting your time and his/her time also. End the relationship as soon as you realize it is over. 

Mantra 5. Use Privacy

              Breakup can be very emotional situations. Breakup with you GF/BF privately. Provide him/her with dignity of a quiet and private place when you breakup with him/her. Avoid taking him/her romantic spot or the places you guys have on romantic date before.

• TIP: Exercise delicacy if you don't want to hurt her/him, be delicate with your reason behind the breakup. For example " Tum mere liye sahi nehi ho!" ( You just don't good enough for me), that will lead hurt feelings, devastation and even anger, possibly consider on placing the blame on yourself. Say something like " Mujhe lagta ke abhi bhi main serious relationship ke liye tayar nehi hu" (I think, I am not ready for a serious relationship yet).             

•  WARNING: Avoid the pitfall of behavour badly and forcing your GF/BF to breakup with you. Don't waste time on taking cowardly route,be good, frank, gentle when you breakup.

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